date your wife learns what she actually loves, then sends you one thoughtful idea a week — a gift, a date, or a gesture — before you even have to think about it.
Pick produce together, then make dinner side by side that evening.
Matches her preference for low-key, hands-on time together.
A few quick questions, plus the small things you've noticed — what she'd buy without hesitation, what she still brings up months later.
Real, current ideas — restaurants, gifts, gestures — matched to her, not pulled from a generic gift-guide template.
React honestly. It gets sharper every time — by the second month it knows her better than a generic list ever could.
"I forgot our anniversary three years running. This year I didn't have to remember anything."
— Mark T."She thinks I've gotten really good at this. I have not. I just have an app."
— Daniel R."The pottery class idea was so specific I assumed she'd told someone. She hadn't. I had."
— James K.One last step before the questionnaire.